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  How many people thought about suicide after they were disfellowshipped

  by Lee Marsh in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i know i was suicidal before i was disfellowshipped.

  and it got worse after i left.

  one night a friend told me that he went home the night before and wasn't sure if he would ever hear from me again.

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  stan livedeath

  @ Easy prompt

  may i ask--were you and your husband in the JW before you got wed ?
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  If JW is not the truth, then what is the true religion?

  by TxNVSue2023 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  even though i'm disfellowshiped ( & i belive wrongfully so).

  i still belive this is the truth.

  i have been d'f for about 8 months now and working on reinstatement.

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  stan livedeath

  @joe134cd

  Iglesia ni Christo

  why that one ?
  
  
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  How many people thought about suicide after they were disfellowshipped

  by Lee Marsh in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i know i was suicidal before i was disfellowshipped.

  and it got worse after i left.

  one night a friend told me that he went home the night before and wasn't sure if he would ever hear from me again.

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  stan livedeath

  not exactly a matching answer--as i wasnt d/f--i had resigned years before--but attended now and then to appease the wife. However it was announced i couldnt be df as i wasnt a jw--but was to be treated as apostate and treated the same.

  Far from suicidal--i was ecstatic--it was just what i wanted. Finally free of the madness. It wasnt till a few years later that my kids shunned me. But that was because of the control freak actions of their mother.
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  Chelmsford Dedication

  by Teddnzo in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  zoe has nephew in the new bethel and we have been there to visit him.

  even had a meal in the new dinning room and had a tour.. it was a bit underwhelming and the display of old bibles open to pages showing jehovah’s name is supposed to prove everything they say is spot on!.

  everyone is talking about the upcoming dedication where members of the gb are flying over.

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  stan livedeath

  what do they actually do there?

  just waiting while it increases in value so they can churn it.
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  Goodbye Mother

  by punkofnice in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so my mother passed on 20 aug 23 from the big c. i was there when she went.

  that was indeed very traumatic.

  i won't go to describe it.. dad went 17 years ago so there's just me now.

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  stan livedeath

  When my 94 y o JW dad died in 2016--i checked his will--there was no mention of funeral arrangements, so as there was no one else to make the arrangements--i did it all. I met with a funeral director--and explained i wanted no religious service whatsoever.

  I never told his congregation he had died--or his grand children--all JWs, who had never visited him in the care home--or for years before that.

  I went to the crematorium--along with 2 friends of mine--both ex jw. A couple of the carers from the home went. The coffin was bought in--the funeral director said there would be a couple of minutes silence for reflection; the curtain closed in front of the coffin--and that was that.

  i think of my dad quite often--and i believe he had a lot of doubts about the religion--but he kept it to himself. The congregation was well aware i was very close to my dad--and he never shunned me.
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  Goodbye Mother

  by punkofnice in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so my mother passed on 20 aug 23 from the big c. i was there when she went.

  that was indeed very traumatic.

  i won't go to describe it.. dad went 17 years ago so there's just me now.

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  stan livedeath

  sorry for your loss mate.
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  Mandated Shunning is a Crime

  by Lee Marsh in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  mandated shunning is on the rise around the world with devastating effects on millions of people.

  shunning that is mandated by organized groups to its members is a form of both physical and psychological violence against those people being shunned and cut off from their family and life-long relationships.

  mandated shunning means that the shunning is ordered from the top down.

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  stan livedeath

  if JWs hate me--do i have to hate them back ? If i do--arent i the same as them ?
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  ex-jw-uk

  by bigmac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.

  i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?

  i've already found several by reading older posts..

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  stan livedeath

  i thought i would drag this old thread up to date-took me ages to find in search;

  any recent new UK members welcome to add their username and say hello.
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  How to Legally Dissolve a Religious Organization

  by EasyPrompt in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  regarding the state dissolving a church organization.... .

  as posted in another thread, here is what is happening in japan, filing a court order to dissolve the unification church.... .

  https://www.eurasiareview.com/06092023-japan-seeks-court-order-to-dissolve-unification-church/.

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  stan livedeath

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  all of which is just your opinion: wishful thinking ( understandable ) but unprovable--unless it happens.
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  How to Legally Dissolve a Religious Organization

  by EasyPrompt in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  regarding the state dissolving a church organization.... .

  as posted in another thread, here is what is happening in japan, filing a court order to dissolve the unification church.... .

  https://www.eurasiareview.com/06092023-japan-seeks-court-order-to-dissolve-unification-church/.

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  stan livedeath

  easy prompt:

  When he takes the throne in heaven, he will clean out the house, first thing. He'll clean the Devil out of heaven

  hasnt he done that already ?